Ancient and modern otaku from the 2-D world are actually not that different.
They come from good family conditions, at least enough to support their education.
Smart but not exceptionally so, capable of passing the exam for Scholar at most, finding it incredibly hard to go any further.
They have a clear understanding of reality, knowing that the daughters of high-status families won't fancy them, so they pin their romantic hopes on deceased souls and lively Monsters in the mountains.
You're telling me there's something wrong with the Tang Family's young miss, who looks like a Monster? Do you think I wouldn't know that's a problem?
In these times, who would willingly play the fool if they could find a partner?
After the Wei Family incident, both young girls Wang Ying and Tang Moli changed a lot.
Wang Ying finally started to hit the books seriously and stopped yelling about wanting to battle strong opponents for three hundred rounds.